I think my boyfriend is cheating...how can I find out for sure?!

The sad part about this topic is...if you think he's cheating chances are you're right! But I have to say that if you are basing this on past experiences, forcing him to pay for the broken heart the guy before him caused you! You may as well stop while you're ahead, because NO man will ever have to hurt you again as long as you hold on to the past. You will be doing all the hurting to yourself! (Healing First)

A few years ago, I watched my college room mate run from a guy because "he was too good to her". She was trying to get over her last break up, that was over a year before this. Seriously she had me go on dates with her for months, may seem really weird I know! But it was something about this guy that kept me pushing her, she is now married to him, and living a life she thought she would only dream about.

If you search you will always find, don't open up a can of worms you can't handle! Is he cheating or not?

The Break up Poem...Getting over Hurt!

A love poem, not giving up...simply moving on

I’m not saying…



I’m not saying that you won’t ever cross my mind

All I’m saying is that I’m doing fine

I’m not saying that I don’t love you

Because that wouldn’t be the truth

All I’m saying is that I’ll be ok, even without you



It hurts because I know that I gave you my very best

But now I see that you… are just like all the rest

I’m not saying that I hate you

But yet can’t understand you or this mess



I opened up my heart to you, and you just let me down

Can’t believe that you said, you would always be around

I’m not saying that I’ll ever be able to forget the glistening in your eyes

I’m just saying that I’m giving up on all the midnight cries

Finding the courage to move on after a break up isn't easy, but you can do it!